Why is it....

That we all want acceptance, respect and  love and yet it is so difficult to always give it and sometimes even get it in return.  Is it genetic in nature? Is it what we have learned growing up? Is it who we become all on our own?

Years ago I knew a woman who had had a hard life growing up.  She was less educated, and thought it was okay to tell people exactly what she thought and yet she was one of the most humble people I knew. However, I can't say she was my favorite person!

I  know several people who seem angry, dissatisfied whatever you want to call it at the world.   I know people who are afraid that any happiness they find, is not real.  I know several "somebodies" whose hearts are broken and sad.  I know people who prefer the "good 'ole days".  I have even laughed when they have said this because during those "good 'ole days" they still wanted something different.

There are times when I want something different.  There are times I want to be somewhere different. (a warm beach and a warm sunny day would be my first choice!)  There are times when I want to be someone different.  I  hate to admit it but there are times when I am annoyed at the world too.  However, most days I just want to be me. Happy sometimes, not so happy other times.  Why is it that we (insert I) forget to allow people these same emotions?

How about we throw anger to the wayside?  Trust in others a little more?  Extend ourselves to those hurting with a simple smile, word of encouragement, or with today's technology, text them, inbox them, email them or even pick up the phone and call them. Tell them we care. I know someone who is so very good at this that they are my hero and I love them  for their kind words of encouragement. You never fail to amaze me! (I hope you know who you are...K)

If we live with anger, fear, or unhappiness we become that all to easily.  I once decided I could remain angry with the world, slam the door, kick the cat or I could get over myself and be someone different.  I think I became that someone different.

Dare to become someone different if you need to, because....when all is said and done most of us are very fortunate!!

I hope today is a good day for you!!